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Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring. Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger not your own lips. A stone is heavy, and sand is weighty, but a fool's provocation is heavier than both. (Proverbs 27:1-3 ESV)
Braggarts feel better about themselves while bragging, which keeps them from seeing how they are really being perceived. Why does bragging blind us to others negative perceptions of us? In other words, we like talking about ourselves...a lot.
Boasting seems like a minor moral flaw. We all do it from time to time. Given our need for recognition, it's almost impossible to avoid. Yet the Old Testament consistently connects boasting with other evils, like greed. According to Proverbs, one of the most common brags is how we cheat others: "Bad, bad, says the buyer, but when he goes away, then he boasts" (20:14). It is no accident that when we get a particularly good deal, we call it a "steal."
For some reason, we feel better about ourselves when we gain financially at others expense. But boasting about financial gain is a form of ungrateful atheism because it emphasize our ability, not God's gracious provision. How much of your wealth are you responsible for? Even if you worked hard to achieve it, does it not come from the LORD? Does a farmer create the crop he harvests? Does an entrepreneur create the opportunities he leverages? Did You choose the time and place you were born, the parents you had, or the education you received? Our response to wealth should be gratitude and generosity, not boasting or pride. Jesus concluded a parable about a financial braggart with this warning: "GOD said to him, 'Fool! This night your soul is required of you, and the things you have prepared, whose will they be? So is the one who lays up treasure for himself and is not rich toward GOD" (Luke 12:20-21).
Another common boast the Bible talk about is one's mental, physical, or social strength. Yet like wealth, our strength is far more to God's credit than our own. Like wealth, it can disappear far more quickly than it can be built. Even the wicked king Ahab rebuked his enemy Ben-hadad of Syria: "Let not him who straps on his armor boast himself as he who takes it off" (1 Kings 20:11). Before he could blink. Ben-hadad's troops were routed by the hand of GOD. Likewise, David enshrined Saul's hubris in the lyrics of Psalm 52:1: "Why do you boast of evil, O mighty man? The steadfast love of GOD endures all the day." Both wealth and power Come from the LORD. He bestows and removes according to his will and often in response to our humility or pride. This is why David could say, "The boastful shall not stand before your eyes; you hate all evildoers " (5:5). According to GOD, boasting is not petty; It is evil.
Think about this: Since all our talents and assets are gifts from GOD, it makes sense to give him credit. When we have a natural ability that we submit to GOD, we call it a "spiritual gift." If we have wealth or education, freedom or family, health or security, these are gifts of GOD in the lottery of time, geography, and genetics. All are gifts to be stewarded, not achievements to flaunt. "What do you have that you did not receive? If then you received it, why do you boast as if you did not receive it?" (1 Corinthians 4:7).
When we admit our weakness, we highlight God's strengths. When we are empty, God's power fills us. When we are poor, his riches provide. Our abasement accomplishes his glory, and we get caught in the updraft of his exaltation. Or as James 1:9 says succinctly, "Let the lowly brother boast in his exaltation.
Meditation In Action: 1: Why do you think it feels good to boast? 2: What is an example of a "humble brag"--something someone brags about in a roundabout way? 3: How can we shift from boasting about our achievements to expressing gratitude for God's blessings? 4: What are some practical ways to boast about our weaknesses, as Paul suggested in 2 Corinthians 11:30? 5: Why do you think people are turnoff when someone brags?
Meditate On: 1 Corinthians 1:29, 31; 3:21; 4:7.
Ask the Holy Spirit to search your heart and reveal any areas of unconfessed sin. Acknowledge these to the LORD and thank Him for His forgiveness.
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